This week's messages
Lessons in Love
How many of us have had the painful experience of
being betrayed, abandoned or hurt by someone we
loved? Why is it that sometimes, no matter how much
we love someone, it isn't enough to keep the
relationship alive? This is a difficult lesson and one that
we remember long after it is over. In fact, a painful
ending to a relationship can stop us from ever allowing
us to experience another one. Why are our lessons in
love so difficult? Perhaps it is because it is not a lesson
in loving the other person, it's a lesson in loving
ourselves.
Difficult relationships don't end suddenly. The
announcement of the ending may be a surprise, but
there were things leading up to that moment that we
knew were issues. When we love someone we can
overlook many things. The more we love them, the
more we are willing to overlook their behavior. We think
it doesn't matter, it will resolve itself or the person will
change. What we discover is that it does matter,
things have a way of not resolving themselves and
people don't change. But when we are blind to the
obvious, as we are when we are in love, we make
excuses or tell ourselves that love conquers
everything. Sometimes it does, and sometimes it can
conquer us as well.
The difficult lessons in love are a reflection of how
much we love ourselves and value our time, worth and
desires. When we, for example, give all of our time and
energy to maintain a relationship, we often ignore our
own needs. Now we are out of balance and in the
middle of a lesson. Do we believe that we must do
everything to make this work or can we see ourselves
in a relationship in which one partner does not have to
sacrifice themselves and it doesn't require constant
maintenance? Do we love ourselves to believe that we
are worthy of a relationship in which are needs are
served instead of ignored?
Lessons in love are all about loving ourselves. If we
don't love ourselves, we cannot find someone who will
fill that role for us. Instead, we will find someone who
will reflect our own lack of self love back to us. When
we love ourselves enough to say 'this is not right for
me and does not serve me' we do two things, in
addition to learning the lesson. First, we acknowledge
that we are worthy of having the most wonderful
relationship we can imagine and willingly release that
which does not meet those criteria. Second, when we
let go of that which does not serve us, it is a step of
faith and trust in the Universe that allows it to bring us
what we want. This week, look at any relationships in
your life that do not serve you, bring you joy, or that
are unbalanced. Are you happy with the situation? Are
you willing to let go out of love for yourself and know
that once you do, the Universe will bless you with what
you want and you can create the relationship of our
dreams.
Read the March 2006 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The March article is posted on the Uriel
Heals website and this month's message is about
Lessons in Living. The purpose of our life lessons is not
to remind us of our imperfection, but to teach us about
creating a life filled with joy, peace and unconditional
love. How do we get there? This weeks message is
about the Lessons in Love, whose purpose is to teach
us to love ourselves. This week's Today's
Children discusses Indigos and the Payoff.
Uriel's message this week is about who heals you. The
series on Indigos and Suicide is
available on the Today's Children page, in response to
your requests. Read the newsletter in Spanish at Zona
Mistica. The link is on the Uriel Heals home page.
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Contents are Copyright(c) 2004-5 by Jennifer Hoffman.
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Are You a Nice Person
Some people consider me a nice person, others do not.
I am a nice person because I am kind to others,
respectful, thoughtful and courteous. Those who do
not think I am a nice person have encountered the side
of me that has strong boundaries which I protect
because I am a nice person with boundaries. I will give
and share, but not to the point where it takes all of my
time and energy. Many times, I hear clients say "I am a
nice person but . . ." and then I hear about how they
feel
taken advantage of by others, because they are a nice
person. Being a nice person does not include allowing
others to take advantage of us. Does the definition of
being a nice person include being unable to say 'no'?
There will always be people who ask for our time and
energy beyond that which is reasonable or acceptable.
And it is always our prerogative to decline to help
them, give them time or money or help solve their
problems. That does not define us as mean, it just
establishes our boundaries. And we must have
boundaries that define how much time and energy we
are willing to give others or we will spend all of our time
and energy taking care of others and not able to do
anything for ourselves. We can be a nice person and
still say 'no' occasionally.
Within the spiritual community, there is a belief that
spiritual people have to be nice and that includes being
constantly available to everyone for everything. And
we feel that if we walk the spiritual path we must help
others. Sometimes the best way to help others it to
teach them how to help themselves. Being a person
who is nice to others means being kind, courteous,
considerate and generous. But when that inner warning
goes off and says 'this is too much' it is a message to
us that our boundaries are being challenged. And when
we feel that we are being taken advantage of, we
probably are.
How do we stop being taken advantage of and still be a
nice person? Consider that the person who is taking
advantage of you may be giving you a lesson in
creating and maintaining boundaries. And the best way
to approach the situation is to tell them, nicely of
course, that you have an issue. And then establish
your boundaries and keep them intact. Once you have
established your boundaries and people know what
they are they will respect them. Some may think you're
no longer nice, but you will create space in your life for
new people who won't challenge your boundaries and
will still think that you're a nice person.
The Difference Between a Victor and a Victim is I AM »
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Uriel's Message-Who Heals You?
There are many different healing modalities that can
take you through the process of healing, but while they
will assist in the healing process, they cannot heal you.
There are people in your life, part of your soul group,
who will bring you the lessons that you need to
strengthen your awareness, but they will not heal you.
You may arrive at the point where you can no longer
accept your life as it is and decide to do things
differently and while that is a point of healing, it will
not heal you. Your ability to heal yourself occurs at the
moment at which you decide to heal.
Healing occurs at a soul level and it happens when the
mind and soul are in agreement that healing should
happen. That is a powerful moment for you because it
means that you decide to free yourself from karma, old
wounds, pain, unforgiveness and lack of self-love.
While this is very freeing it also brings up its own
questions. Once you are healed, you must live your life
differently, make different choices, sometimes agree to
release partners, relationships and everyone who
cannot accept your healing. When you heal you change
your vibrational frequency and that affects everyone
around you. If they cannot change their vibrational
level to match yours, they will be uncomfortable around
you and the relationship will end.
This a time when all of humanity has an opportunity to
heal but it is a choice that comes with the healing
process. No one can agree to heal and then continue
to live their life in the same way as before. The healing
decision carries much responsibility, as well as many
rewards. On a global level, can humanity agree to heal
and live in peace? Can you learn to look past gender,
race, culture and all of the things that divide you and
learn to see everyone as part of the human family? Is it
possible for everyone to accept that just as there is no
separation between them and the Source, there is also
no separation between anyone?
The healing decision is, and always has been, yours.
The moment that you decide to heal yourself, you are
healed. Everything that you have done and experienced
along your path has been part of that process and
contributes to creating the acknowledgement that you
are ready to let go of a life that does not bring you
complete joy. But it is a decision that you make. Once
you make it, you are free to live your life differently,
free from drama and chaos, accepting your divine right
to joy, peace and unconditional love. It is also a
reflection of your love and acceptance of yourself, for
the healing decision is made out of love for yourself.
When you make a decision to heal, you create a
vibration that extends over the planet and increases
humanity's ability to make the same decision. Then you
will bring Heaven on Earth and live the life that is your
divine inheritance, filled with peace, love and
unconditional joy.
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Indigos and the Payoff
There is a new generation of children in the world and
they are known by many names, including Indigo and
Crystal Children, Star Children, Light Children. Whatever
name they are known by, they are a generation that
we have never seen before and they have special
needs, gifts and talents. The Crystal and Indigo
children represent the new, higher energetic patterns
that are arriving to change the Earth's vibrational
frequency.This new series provides information on
these children and the wonderful gifts they bring to the
world. Along with their special gifts and talents, they
also have certain needs and the purpose of this series
is to help them and their parents find solutions to these
needs so that Indigos and Crystals can do the work
that they came here to do.
Before committing to anything, Indigos often want to
know what's in it for them-how do they benefit by
fulfilling that request. They're always willing or
demanding to negotiate on everything, to the point
where it's almost easier to not ask them to do things.
They will argue with their parents over the smallest
details that seem unimportant to us but are very
important to them. On one level they want to ensure
that they are effectively utilizing their time and energy.
On another level, they don't like doing things that, in
their opinion, serve no useful purpose, including
satisfying their parents requests. They are able to tell
us, for example, that they see no purpose in cleaning
their room just to make us happy when they find no
problem with the mess-and it's their room.
Finding the benefits in something before they commit
themselves is a very useful Indigo skill, one that we
could all learn from. How often do we say 'yes' to
something, not realizing until later, when it's too late to
back out, that we have just overcommitted ourselves
to doing something that we don't want to do? Indigos
can usually successfully avoid that by using their
extraordinary powers of arguing and persuasion which
often exasperate their parents and others to the point
where they give up in frustration. But there's another
way to approach this issue and to get Indigos to do
what we want them to and to satisfy their need to
understand the payoff. Not in monetary terms, but how
it benefits them, makes life better and helps the world
in general.
Indigos view much of what we ask them to do as
unnecessary and mindless. They have better things to
do with their time, even if they are sitting and doing
nothing. We must find a balance between insisting that
they do what we tell them to do, which is not part of
this generation's belief system, and allowing them to do
whatever they want. They key is in negotiation and, as
I have written many times, communication. Arguing
with Indigos is pointless because they can be very
argumentative and once they are challenged, they will
refuse to do anything out of spite. But if we can show
them the value of what we want them to do and
negotiate with them, they will gladly do what we ask.
Remember that this is the generation who came to
upset the status quo, to change the systems. They
aren't going to do that by accepting whatever is said
to them. Their experiences with their parents are
preparing them for what they will be doing when they
enter the world of business and politics. While it can be
frustrating, it is a necessary part of their growth. So
the next time your Indigo child doesn't want to do
something, consider what the payoff is and negotiate
your terms. You will be dealing with them on their level
and the result will be beneficial and less frustrating for
both of you.
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30 Days to Everyday Miracles
I am still having problems with the e-book and
anticipate having them fixed this week. Mercury
retrograde seems to be affecting me at this time. The
release of the 30 Days to Everyday Miracles will be
announced in the newsletter and available on the Uriel
Heals website Miracle Coaching page.
Do you really need a miracle right now? Do you wish
you could get just focus on getting whatever you
needed in your life, at this moment and have it
appear? The Miracle Coaching program can teach you
how to do that. Miracle coaching teaches you how to
use your creative power and become a miracle creator,
putting you in control of creating miracles in your life,
instead of just wishing that they would happen.
The 8 week Miracle Program will teach you how to
get 'unstuck' and get the creative energy moving in
your life, so that miracles are an everyday occurrence
in your life. For 8 weeks, I will be your personal coach,
guiding you through this process. Each week you will
have a lesson to complete and a 30 to 45 minute
personal coaching session with me. I am also available
by email on an unlimited basis to provide you with
support and feedback on your progress. You will
receive
a certificate of completion at the end of the course,
acknowledging your success as a miracle creator. You
will also receive a FREE e-book '30 days to Everyday
Miracles', filled with information on how to create
miracles. Coaching availability is limited, so sign up
now.
Information is available on the Uriel Heals website,
Miracle Coaching page.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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