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August
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The Cord Disconnection and
Healing meditation CD has received rave reviews and
testimonials. To purchase, click
here. A new teleclass, Healing the Family &
Soul Group Energy is scheduled for August 18. Click here for
details.
This month's article is entitled
Healing Through Love and provides insight on the
purpose and meaning of our healing journey, which is our
search for the love that we remember from Home. Love is easy
to find when we know how to look for it. The key is simple,
are we looking for a heart-based love or to satisfy the ego's
needs? Read more in the first article, How Do You
Love? Are you faced with a choice you do not want to make
and there is no easy option available? Do you really dislike
being in this situation? Right now we are being faced with
these kinds of choices and they are discussed in the second
article. Archangel Uriel's message addresses whether we
can cause pain for others. And in the Indigo and Crystals
section, we address how Indigos are the teachers in their
family, often by being the parent. Read more in this week's
Indigos and Crystals article. Visit the website to see a
list of traits and decide whether you are Indigo or
Crystal ... or both.
The
series on Indigos and Suicide is available on the Today's
Children page in response to your requests. Read the
newsletter in Spanish at Templo del Sol,
thank you Xitlalli! The link is on the Uriel Heals home page.
Be sure to visit the Lightworker Resources page on the website
to see helpful tools for your spiritual, emotional and
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How Do You
Love?
It is part of the human condition to long for love - we
describe it in songs, books and movies, each of us has a story
of lost love and when our broken heart heals, we are willing
to try again. We believe that our search for love is
part of life, everyone wants to be treasured by a life partner
who complements them in every way. But our search for love on
the material plane is a reflection of our desire for
reconnection, to reconnect to the unconditional love we know
from Home. And we can find that love when we know how to
love.
There are two ways to love, from our heart or from
the ego. Heart love is based in spirit, it is unconditional
and forgiving, grounded in knowing that we are love and are
loved in every way, at all times. From a spiritual perspective
this is enough and we can go through life moving from one
loving situation to another. But we have the ego to contend
with, and it assumes that we are not loved so it seeks out the
most unloving, challenging situations and tries to create love
from them.
The ego always wants proof, from the material plane,
that love exists. And it remembers every experience of
rejection and betrayal, every slight and hurtful comment and
uses them as reminders that we are not worthy or deserving of
love. Because we have material proof that love hurts, is hard
to find, does not come easily and can be lost, we have to
convince the ego that love is possible in order to connect to
the love we wish to find. And we can do that by raising our
vibrations so that we approach love from Spirit instead of
through the ego.
Our ego based love is selfish, doubting and needy. It
wants its needs met as proof that love is real. Love from the
heart is selfless, faithful and gives knowing that it will
receive. Heart love is confident and does not need to have
proof that it can have love because it finds love in every
situation. Being at the vibration of unconditional love allows
the love connection to be made effortlessly. If love seems
distant or impossible, we need to look at how we love, from
the ego or from the heart. When we are willing to love from
the heart we are able to receive love and we will discover
that the love we want is waiting for us and will appear in our
life at the right time. Read the August
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The Uriel Heals
Enlightening Life radio
show
The next Uriel Heals Enlightening Life
radio show will be Wednesday, August 19 at
8PM Central time on Blog Talk Radio. We
will discuss the latest newsletter and readings will be
available to callers in the second half of the show.
Call in at 718-664-6504. Click here for show details and to
download or listen to previous shows.
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Those who know me will laugh when they read this article
because they know that paying for parking is one of my pet
peeves. I think that parking should be free and I will go out
of my way to look for a free parking spot, rather than paying
to park my car somewhere. When I was in Los Angeles with a
friend a few months ago, we drove around for fifteen minutes
looking for a free parking spot but eventually had to pay a
nominal rate because there were no free spaces available. I
had to make the choice between paying for parking or driving
around looking for something that I was not going to find.
We are now faced with these kinds of choices, making
assessments about what we have to do, can avoid doing or find
alternatives to help us feel better about the choices we are
making.
A situation you are faced with now may be like
'paying for parking', you may not want to do it but changing
the rules, introducing your needs or finding a more painless
solution may not be an option. And despite your best efforts
you may have to risk alienating people in your life. When you
have been the ones they can count on, been their source of
power or their support, removing that energy shifts your
relationship dramatically. You feel guilty because they
counted on you and they are angry because now they have to
find another resource. Did you have another option?
So many of us give to others because we feel their
pain, we know we can help and we think that if we show up for
them they will be grateful and appreciative. But what we think
is a one-time effort turns into a long term commitment and now
we are doing things we don't want to do, with no end in sight.
In short, we are paying for parking and it is expensive. How
do we end the situation in a loving way that helps us
establish clear boundaries, empowers us and them and doesn't
destroy a relationship? Sometimes that is not possible and we
just have to assert ourselves and acknowledge our
responsibility in the situation while we disconnect, disengage
from our commitments and move on.
Sometimes the choice is not as easy and we have to
stay within a commitment until we can find a better
alternative. In that case we can spend time understanding the
lesson, seeing how we give our power away and learn to say
'no' and really mean it. Just as there are times when I cannot
avoid paying for parking, there are times when we have to
finish what we have started and make a commitment to ourselves
to be more aware of our needs, to see others as powerful and
to stay within our power so that we are aware of where we make
commitments and how much those commitments will cost us.
Spiritual attunements
illuminate your path... |
Uriel's Message -- Can
You Cause Others Pain?
As you move farther along the ascension path
you disconnect from energies you have been holding for
lifetimes, which are the soul group connections you have been
maintaining from the beginning of your incarnation. These
energies represent your soul wounds, karma, memories, pain and
fear that you have repeated throughout your many lifetimes. As
you are ready to release them you are aware of the reactions
that others have to your actions and you are afraid for
yourselves and for them. You do not want to cause another pain
by leaving them to handle these energies alone. But you cannot
be responsible for or cause another pain, they connect to the
pain they already carry.
Your commitment to others is to their soul
growth, the healing and transformation that each of you wants
to achieve in a lifetime. The pain that you feel in any
experience is possible because you have the memory of that
pain within you. When someone betrays you and you feel the
pain of betrayal, it is your memory of that pain which this
experience has awakened. If you feel abandoned or ignored by
someone, you carry this pain within you from a prior lifetime
and their actions simply connect to the pain that already
exists within your cellular memory and emotional DNA.
Each of you has free will, which allows you
to choose those experiences which will contribute to your soul
growth. You each have dominion over the energies of your life,
including how you experience those energies. So you can choose
to experience fear, pain, betrayal, abandonment in any of
their aspects and at any vibration. You can also choose to
experience love, peace and joy. No one is responsible for
another's emotions and even if an action appears to be
deliberate, it is a karmic cycle that is repeating. How
you respond to it is your choice.
It is time for the most dense energies of the third
dimension to be transmuted into their higher vibrating aspects
and among these is every aspect of fear, which is expressed in
its simplest form as being disconnected from Source. Each of
you must choose the path you wish to follow in your ascension
and your fear that you will cause another pain is simply your
fear that you will not complete your soul contract work with
them and will have to return. Follow your path and express the
highest vibration of your energies with each thought, word and
action. Then you are completing your healing and allowing
others to complete theirs as well. The journey of heaven on
earth is one where you take responsibility for yourself, for
your own ascension journey and recognize the sovereignty of
each person to do the
same.
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Indigos Teaching the Family
Some of the younger Indigos I work with have to be
reminded that they are not the only ones who have had a
difficult childhood. In fact, none of the adult Indigos that I
know (those raised in the 1950s and 1960s) would describe
their childhood as fun, loving, fulfilling and peaceful. The
opposite is true. So when I work with Indigos who are suicidal
or angry with their parents, I have to remind them that they
came to teach their parents and society about love and
acceptance, that they are the ones who came to show what was
broken so we could fix it, with the eventual help of the
Crystals and later generations.
Indigos can be very intolerant of people who do not honor
their commitments by doing what they are "supposed" to do.
This is especially true of their parents, who are supposed to
be nurturing, loving, supportive providers. At least that is
what we have been led to believe. We know from our personal
experience that parents can be anything but that. But the
younger Indigos think that they were short changed, that their
parents could have done better, that they held back or did not
care. And they are angry, resentful and sometimes hurt
themselves in an effort to get their parents to show that them
the attention they crave.
Those Indigos who chose
parents that they agreed to teach chose a difficult role in
their family. Sometimes they had to be the parent for
their parents or siblings, to be responsible and ensure that
things were taken care of. Some Indigos take on lessons that
show the world how dysfunctional a family can be, to bring
awareness to this issue so solutions can be created. Their
anger and resentment deny the core issue, that they were the
teachers and their family was their student.
The adult Indigos who are parenting the
younger generation have tried to give their children the
compassion and support they did not receive from their
parents. But many of today's Indigos did not choose Indigo
parents. They had to chose parents who would help them fulfill
their mission to expose what is not working so it can be
changed and there is much within the family structure that
needs to be changed. There are many young Indigos who are sad
and angry because they believe that their family did not care
enough to love or support them, that their parents
deliberately sabotaged their childhood. But their purpose was
to be teachers, to teach love, support, compassion, nurturing
and caring and they can find peace by acknowledging the
teaching and healing role they played in their family as part
of the work they are here to do. Read about Indigos
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