This week's messages
What is Betrayal?
When a friend's fiancé decided to pursue another
woman she felt betrayed. I felt it was an opportune
ending to a difficult relationship. When another friend
made a painful decision to end her marriage she felt
that she was betraying her family, but she had been
miserable for many years and I felt that she was
making a courageous choice. At different times in our
lives we can be the betrayer or the one betrayed. No
matter where we are in the process, we can use the
lessons from the experience to find peace.
If we were betrayed by someone, were there warning
signs of the pending betrayal? Were we really
comfortable with this person and situation? If it is us
who are doing the betraying, were we happy with the
choices we made with this person or did we say 'yes'
when we really meant 'no'? Did we give our power away
and have to find a way to take it back? It is
often our desire for love and acceptance that allows us
to ignore our inner warning signs and step into
relationships that are not in our highest good. No
matter which side of betrayal we are on, we must be in
integrity with ourselves or we will have to eventually
face some difficult decisions and choices.
At this time many relationships are ending for a variety
of reasons. We are being asked to review our
relationships and those that do not honor or serve us
are the ones that we must choose to allow to end.
When we must take action we are in the difficult
position of severing ties to someone else. When
someone ends a relationship with us we feel betrayed
and hurt. Betrayal can take many forms but when it
occurs, we have to address the expectations that we
have of ourselves and of others and how they were
met. Perhaps we expected too much of someone or
they expected more of us that we were capable of
giving.
With the Shift, it is important that all of our
relationships reflect our energetic vibrations. The ones
that do not will eventually end, one way or another, as
they will become too uncomfortable for us and for the
other person. Through the process, however, we are
guided to assess all of our relationships and to release
those that simply are not right for us any longer. When
we can find peace with this process, we can see
betrayal as a lesson for us and instead of saying 'why
did they do that' and feel the pain or we can ask 'why
did I choose this', accept the lesson and find peace.
Whether we are being betrayed or feel that we are
betraying someone, it is our willingness to accept
responsibility for our reality that can move us forward
on our path to new relationships and situations that
match our energetic vibrations, those that will not end
with betrayal.
Read the September 2006 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The September article is posted on the Uriel Heals
website and this month's message is about Dealing
With Betrayal. As we move forward with the Shift,
many of our relationships are ending, often through
betrayal. How do we deal with it? Betrayal can be a
healing lesson for us if we understand the process and
what it means for us. What is betrayal? Can we be a
betrayer as well as one who is betrayed? Understanding
betrayal helps us ask different questions, accept the
lesson and find peace. This week's message
discusses the meaning of betrayal so that we can
understand our role in the process and move on.
Archangel Uriel's message talks about the Wounds of
the Soul. This week's Today's Children article is about
Indigos and how they connect and communicate with
the world. The series on Indigos and
Suicide is available on the Today's Children page in
response to your
requests. Read the newsletter in Spanish at Zona
Mistica. The link is on the Uriel Heals home page.
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What Does 'I Love You' Mean to You?
When a client called me with news of the sudden end
of her relationship, she was devastated. 'I thought he
loved me' she said. He did, but his own way, not in her
way. It is a magical time in a relationship when
someone says the words 'I love you'. Finally, we have
found the One, we can make plans for the future and
we know, since they love us, that the relationship is
permanent. So when that doesn't happen we are
devastated and hurt. They 'said' they loved us so why
are they doing this?
It is not that the other person didn't love us, they
simply love us in the way that they can. And that can
be far different than what we want or need. And the
words "I love you" mean something different to
everyone. Each of us expresses love and can give and
receive love in our own way. When we are with
someone who shares our way of loving, the effect can
be lasting. But when they do not, we struggle with
disappointment because they do not respond to us in a
way that allows us to believe that they love us. They
love us, but cannot love us in the way that we love
them or want them to love us.
When we fall in love with someone our relationship is
taken to a new level, one that opens our heart to
another person. To some people, this is the most
wonderful feeling in the world; to others, it brings their
fears to the surface. Some people can love fearlessly
and with complete trust in another person. To others,
being in love makes them too vulnerable and when they
feel they are no longer in control, they leave the
relationship. They are afraid to love and to return the
love that they receive. While they may love us, their
fear prevents them from taking the relationship any
farther.
Being disappointed by someone who said they loved us
is painful and can make us doubt ourselves. Were we
loving or good enough? Could we have done something
to compel them to stay in the relationship? Or to
believe that if they truly loved us, they would not treat
us this way. Their inability to return our love, in the
way that we want them to has nothing to do with us
and everything to do with how they love and can give
love. Will we find another person to love us the way we
want and need to be loved? We cannot teach another
how to love us, but we can find a partner who will love
us in the way that we want to be loved. Other
opportunities for love will find us and will be right for us
when we honor our own definition of and need for love
and create the relationship that we want with someone
who can love the same way that we do and is not
afraid to love us.
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Uriel's Message-Wounds of the Soul
In each lifetime you are given opportunities to heal the
wounds of the soul, those places where you have
forgotten your connection to Source and have lost
faith, doubt yourself and have relinquished your power.
The karma that you experience with others is your way
of connecting to these wounds and healing them. Each
lifetime is devoted to healing your soul wounds. Your
spiritual journey is a journey in reconnection to the
Source, which you achieve through this healing
process.
Your wounds may have many layers and it may not be
possible to fully heal them in a single lifetime. For this
reason you are provided with different kinds of lessons
so that you can see the many angles or facets of
these wounds. Have you noticed that the same lessons
keep coming to you again and again? The people and
situations that you encounter may be different, but at
some point in the experience, you begin to see
patterns and realize that you have already done this
before. It is not a sign of spiritual incompetence or
inability, but a variety of opportunities for you to
recognize the wound and apply the lesson to heal it.
The wounds of the soul are often revealed to you in
the wounds of your heart, those experiences in which
you are deeply hurt by someone's actions or words.
These are part of the lessons that you agreed to
experience in order to heal your soul's wounds and
each of them is a turning point on your spiritual path.
How you respond to the situation determines whether
you will heal this portion of your soul wound or create
yet another lesson for yourself. Will you see it as proof
that you are unworthy and powerless, or will you stand
in your power and accept the learning and healing?
The Universe does not judge you when you are unable
to complete a lesson, you have created a spiritual
contract to heal these wounds and you will continue,
lifetime after lifetime, to be provided with perfect
opportunities to do so. It does not matter when you
heal, it can be at any point in your life, even with your
last breath. When you do heal them, the spiritual world
rejoices for you have provided healing for yourself and
for all of humanity. Each of you bears similar wounds
for they are the reasons that there is war, poverty,
lack and discord on the planet. Each of you has the
power to erase these conditions and create peace on
earth so that you all live in harmony and your individual
soul wounds, as well as those of humanity are finally
healed and your connection to Source is fully available
to you.
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Today's Children--Dyslexic, ADD, ADHD and Addicted?
I received an email from my Indigo son today and it
was full of misspelled words and poor grammar.
Although he is highly intelligent and in his twenties, he
writes like a third grader. And he always has. I have
known since he started school that he had dyslexia and
we struggled with it for years. He would not have
graduated from high school if I had not sat next to him
and typed his papers and essays as he recited them to
me. Then I could ensure that the grammar and spelling
were correct. Even now, I edit his writing for him
because he is unable to correct the errors. On top of
that, he has ADHD and cannot sit still and pay
attention for more than a few minutes. And he had an
addiction problem that we struggled through for many
years. After many tries, he now works in an area he is
passionate about, the computer game industry, where
he doesn't have to do a lot of writing and can use his
creative skills to be successful.
Many Indigo children have trouble communicating with
and connecting to the world. This is manifested in the
way they handle interactions. Their thought processes
are very insightful and detailed but when they have to
put their thoughts on paper or connect with others,
they come across as far less intelligent and capable
than they are. Indigos, both adults and children have
been diagnosed as having ADHD and ADD because they
have trouble sitting in one place and learning in
traditional ways. Many of them have auditory or visual
processing problems and are labeled as dyslexic. Some
are even called learning disabled. And addiction
problems affect both adult and children Indigos, some
moderate and some very severe. The addictions are
how they cope with or escape from the world. And
they can get so far into their addictions that they
cannot find their way out of them. When they try to
interact with the world on its terms they can't seem to
connect; but, when they do it in their own way and on
their terms, they are successful.
The Indigo energy needs to be trained in how to
connect with the world and function within society so
that they can create their path to success.
Their 'learning problems' do not mean that they are not
intelligent, simply that they need different avenues,
such as visual learning, to learn. And when they do
participate in the system they're labeled as difficult,
uncooperative or 'unteachable.' Their addiction
problems occur out of their frustration with the world
and their inability to cope with it. Many of the Indigos I
know have some kind of addiction problem and it can
be controlled once they find the path where they feel
they are successful. There is nothing wrong with their
minds, they just don't hear and process information in
the same way that others do. And yet, most of them
hear and process information in the same way. The
key to success is to not try to make them fit into the
mold (which they won't do) but to help them discover
where they excel. My son, after many attempts, found
that he was passionate about computer games and
that is where he now works.
Adult Indigos can find or create jobs for themselves
where they feel they are making a difference and are
passionate about their work. This is their challenge at
this time, to see that while they may be losing their
current job or have to re-create their career path it is
because it is their time to find a career that really
interests them and is about expressing their talents and
creativity, not just earning a paycheck. Younger
Indigos, those still in school, need our help to succeed.
The labels that they have been assigned are simply a
way for society to categorize them as not 'normal' and
they aren't, according to society's standards. They are
simply different. And we can help them celebrate their
differences by making those the best part of them,
instead of a label that makes them wrong, abnormal or
incomplete.
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30 Days to Everyday Miracles
The 30 Days to Everyday Miracles ebook
is now available. Click on the link below to go to the
website page. This ebook is adapted from the Miracle
Coaching and will lead you through the process of
creating a miracle foundation, removing the blocks that
have prevented you from creating miracles in your life,
understanding the spiritual principles behind miracle
creation and setting you on the road to miracle
success.
Do you really need a miracle right now? Do you wish
you could get just focus on getting whatever you
needed in your life, at this moment and have it
appear? The Miracle Coaching program can teach you
how to do that. Miracle coaching teaches you how to
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The 8 week Miracle Program will teach you how to
get 'unstuck' and get the creative energy moving in
your life, so that miracles are an everyday occurrence
in your life. For 8 weeks, I will be your personal coach,
guiding you through this process. Each week you will
have a lesson to complete and a 30 to 45 minute
personal coaching session with me. I am also available
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support and feedback on your progress. You will
receive
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Information is available on the Uriel Heals website,
Miracle Coaching page.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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